Have you ever heard a woman being described as \u201cpretty for a dark skinned girl\u201d? This podcast hears frank and often painful first-hand stories about 'shadeism' or 'colourism' \u2013 discrimination based on skin tone. We are told how decades ago, some African American organisations used the \u201cbrown paper bag test\u201d to decide who could become members, with those with darker skins excluded. And we investigate how this prejudice is still affecting people, including in their relationships. For many, the former First Lady, Michelle Obama, has become a role model. By being married to a man with lighter skin, has she changed how black women and girls see themselves? Contributors include the singer-songwriter India Arie.