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b'Though their marriage has been over for nearly a decade, Ben Heldfond and Nikki DeBartolo still share a happy life with their son Asher and their spouses and children.\\xa0\\nAs we continue Parenting Month on The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, Ben and Nikki join me to discuss their happy divorce story. Yes, happy. There is no villain in their story. As you\\u2019ll hear in this episode, they came to a spot in their divorce where they took accountability for their actions and worked together to create a new life for their separated family.\\xa0\\nIf you\\u2019re thinking, "This could never happen to me," I\\u2019d like to offer a word of caution: please don\'t compare where you\'re at in the divorce process with Ben and Nikki\'s journey. Instead, use their story as inspiration. We hope that you end up in a place where you see a happy divorce as something you can work to achieve.\\nShow Highlights\\n\\nThe red flags that came up on their wedding day, about getting married. (12:20)\\n\\nThe story of their divorce, how it went from what looked like an ugly divorce to one of agreement and solace. (14:52)\\n\\nDivorce doesn\'t screw up kids. It\'s how we do our divorces.\\xa0(20:39)\\n\\nWe all take responsibility; we both have to take responsibility for our parts.\\xa0(30:18)\\n\\nBen and Nikki\' s negative experience going to divorce class. (36:06)\\n\\nAdvice for those getting divorced who may not be in the same place as Ben and Nikki, what you can do if you are on one side of divorce and not being met on that side by your partner. (53:50)\\n\\nNew relationships after divorce, Ben and Nikki got their new significant others on board with your unique link. (57:40)\\n\\nLearn More About Ben and Nikki:From weeknight dinners and homework sessions to Christmas card photos and vacations, Nikki and Ben have created a tight-knit, enviable family. They work and play well together, from the smallest daily tasks to the biggest life events\\u2014and it only took a divorce to get them there. Though their marriage has been over for nearly a decade, they still share a happy life with each other and their son Asher, along with their spouses and children.\\nResources & Links:\\nOur Happy Divorce WebsiteOur Happy Divorce on FacebookOur Happy Divorce on InstagramOur Happy Divorce on TwitterMy Band was Featured on The Voice - Watch! Eagle Rock Isolation Band\\n The Ultimate Divorce Survival GuideShould I Stay or Should I Go Facebook Group'