Episode 243: Preparing for Divorce with Nicole Sodoma
b'Nicole Sodoma joins me on the podcast this week! Nicole is a marriage-loving divorce attorney, founder of Sodoma Law, and author of "Please Don\'t Say You\'re Sorry." In this episode, Nicole shares empowering advice from her book, offering a unique perspective on gracefully navigating the challenges of divorce.\\xa0\\nDiscover the thought-provoking concepts and questions that will compel you to lift your head out of the sand, look closely at your relationships, and help guide you as you take the steps toward divorce. Our conversation covers essential topics such as preparation for divorce, understanding the work required for a successful and happy future, and the actions and steps one should take when considering divorce or separation. Tune in to gain a fresh perspective on the complexities of love and separation and learn how humor and introspection can guide you toward a brighter, more informed journey.\\nFeatured topics include:\\n\\nWhat would your partner say is the reason you want a divorce? Uncover the importance of open communication about the motivations behind this life-altering decision. (8:00)\\n\\nNicole reveals why the safest place to disclose your deepest secrets is with your attorney. Plus, she offers communication tips for interacting effectively with them. (8:32)\\n\\nWe discuss thought-provoking concepts and questions designed to help you confront the realities of your relationship. (27:53)\\n\\nPrepare for the unexpected: Contemplate a scenario where your spouse asks for a divorce. Are you prepared? Nicole helps us think further about the mental and emotional preparations needed to navigate this challenging situation. (33:13)\\n\\nLearn more about Nicole Sodoma:\\nAs a marriage-loving divorce attorney of 25 years, Nicole Sodoma has pioneered a way through the often- dreaded field of family law with integrity, compassion, and tenacity. Over the years, Nicole has risen to prominence as a national authority on divorce, custody, and co-parenting. However, Nicole never expected to go through a divorce herself. Through her professional and personal learnings, Nicole authored her first book, PLEASE DON\\u2019T SAY YOU\\u2019RE SORRY in 2022. The book is a witty, honest, and wildly relatable account of the stripped-down realities of marriage, separation, and divorce. While there\\u2019s no denying that divorce sucks, PLEASE DON\\u2019T SAY YOUR\\u2019E SORRY serves as a reminder that although the journey can be wholly overwhelming and emotionally exhausting - it also doesn\\u2019t have to be the worst thing that\\u2019s ever happened to you. Nicole\'s new PLEASE DON\\u2019T SAY YOU\\u2019RE SORRY Workbook is the perfect companion to the book or audiobook, featuring thought-provoking questions, inspirational quotes and must-have relationship worksheets, perfect for anyone navigating marriage, separation or divorce.\\nResources & Links:\\nPre-order Kate\\u2019s book \\u201cThe D Word\\u201d\\nNicole\\u2019s websitePlease Don\\u2019t Say You\\u2019re Sorry Book and Workbook Nicole on LinkedIn Nicole on Instagram Nicole on Facebook\\nEpisode Link: http://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-243-preparing-for-divorce-with-nicole-sodoma/\\nTODAY\\u2019S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: THE REVISED SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO? PROGRAM\\n\\xa0An online coaching program designed to help you make the right decision about your marriage...once and for all.\\xa0In this groundbreaking online coaching program, you\\u2019ll unlock the support, education and deep transformational work you need to finally answer to your most burning question: should I stay or should I go?\\xa0\\nDISCLAIMER:\\xa0THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE.\\xa0YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.'