Episode 215: The Secret to Getting Along, with Gabrielle Hartley, Esq.
b'Gabrielle Hartley returns to the show to discuss the secret to getting along with others! Gabrielle is co-chair of the American Bar Association Mediation Committee,\\na divorce attorney, online mediator,\\xa0founder of The Private Divorce Solution, and author of "Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate." Her new book, \\u201cThe Secret to Getting Along and Why It\\u2019s Easier Than You Think,\\u201d is available for pre-order.\\xa0\\nGabrielle says that when you learn the steps of getting along, there is nothing more satisfying than being in agreement. Listen to this episode to hear how meeting your deepest emotional needs will lead to resolving conflict.\\nFeatured topics include:\\n\\nThe framework of Gabrielle\\u2019s YES Method and how it encourages people to get along (12:50)\\n\\nKnowing when to shelve a conversation and take space (19:30)\\n\\nIf you can understand what the other person really needs, you can settle almost any argument (24:47)\\n\\nGabrielle explains what she means when she says, \\u201cDefensiveness is the enemy of resolution.\\u201d (32:42)\\n\\nThe VIR protocol: visualizing how you want things to be (36:14)\\n\\nLearn more about Gabrielle Hartley, Esq.:\\nGabrielle Hartley is co-chair of the American Bar Association Mediation Committee,\\na divorce attorney, online mediator,\\xa0founder of The Private Divorce Solution, and author of "Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate." Her new book \\u201cThe Secret to Getting Along and Why It\\u2019s Easier Than You Think\\u201d will be released this May. She offers a weekly newsletter, The Conflict Code\\u201d and hosts The Better Apart Blog and is a frequently quoted media expert in the peaceful divorce realm (The New York Times, Vice, WNYC, Forbes, Psychology Today,etc.) Gabrielle is former court attorney to NYS Supreme Court Judge Jeffrey Sunshine.\\xa0\\xa0\\nWhile writing her first book, Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate (HarperCollins2019) she realized that we all need to get along better in all facets of our lives. Gabrielle developed the YES Method based on more than 25 years working as a top divorce lawyer and mediator.\\nThe Secret to Getting Along was recently selected as a Next Big Idea Club must-read and her Tedx Talk on her strategy has been viewed over 62 thousand times.\\nResources & Links: Information and links may also be found at: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-215-the-secret-to-getting-along-with-gabrielle-hartley-esq/ Join me for a special Split UP: The TEEN Years screening event on Friday, May 12th! To secure your spot and get all the details, visit http://kateanthony.com/split. A Conversation about the film Split UP: The TEEN Years with Christina McGhee and Ellen Bruno\\nGabrielle\'s website Gabrielle on Facebook Gabrielle on Instagram The Secret To Getting Along and Why It\'s Easier Than You Think The Secret To Getting Along is Easier Than You Think TEDx Talk\\nTODAY\\u2019S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: COZY EARTHCozy Earth is the world\'s foremost source of high-quality, authentic bamboo viscose bed linens. Listeners can enjoy this exclusive offer from Cozy Earth today: Receive 35% off site-wide when you use the code \\u201cDSG\\u201d at CozyEarth.com! Thanks to our sponsor, Cozy Earth, and thank you, listeners, for supporting this show!\\nDISCLAIMER:\\xa0THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE.\\xa0YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'