Episode 192: Protective Parenting with Dr. Christine Cocchiola
Dr. Christine Cocchiola returns to the show to talk about coercive control and its impact on children. Dr. Cocchiola\u2019s goal, and the goal of this episode, is to help you create a more secure environment for your child.\xa0Divorcing an abuser is hard, but while you are going through this really tumultuous time, you can still show your children a path to freedom. Yes, it\u2019s hard work. Perhaps it\u2019s the hardest work you will ever do, but you can reignite the attachment you have always had with your child and be their saving grace too.\xa0\nDr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW is a Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher & Survivor.\xa0She is a full-time college professor teaching social work for the last 20 years in CT and also an adjunct instructor at NYU. Her expertise is in the areas of coercive control and the traumatic experiences of both adult and child victims, developing and presenting workshops on these topics both nationally and internationally.\nShow Highlights\n\nCoercive control is a pattern of behavior and it can be covert or overt. It is when one person wants to retain power and control over another (4:55)\n\nCoercive control is the foundation of most domestic abuse (5:17)\n\nIf your spouse is abusing you, your child is a victim of abuse too. Children learn how to regulate their behavior to appease an abusive parent. (11:50)\n\nYou have to be actively working to create a strong foundation so your child clearly knows you are the calm and safe parent (27:21)\n\nAbuse is a choice, and there is no excuse for it (41:26)\n\nDr. Cocchiola answers, \u201cDo coercive controllers have the ability to love their children?\u201d (43:44)\n\nLearn more about Christine:\nDr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW is a Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher & Survivor.\xa0She is a full-time college professor teaching social work for the last 20 years in CT and also an adjunct instructor at NYU. Her expertise is in the areas of coercive control and the traumatic experiences of both adult and child victims, developing and presenting workshops on these topics both nationally and internationally.\xa0Christine, a Board Member of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, has supported policy codifying coercive control and has a small private practice, primarily serving victims and survivors of coercive control.\xa0She is the creator of the Protective Parenting Program, supporting protective mothers on their journey toward healing their children.\nResources & Links:\nInformation and resources may also be found at:\xa0 https://kateanthony.com/podcast/protective-parenting-with-dr-christine-cocchiola Dr. Cocchiola\u2019s website Dr. Cocchiola on Instagram Dr. Cocchiola on Facebook Dr. Cocchiola on Twitter Dr. Cocchiola on LinkedIn Dr. Cocchiola\u2019s past episode on Coercive ControlThe Protective Parenting ProgramSurviving the Holidays with Michelle Dempsey-MultackCo-parenting During the Holidays, During a Pandemic with Michelle Dempsey-Multack\nTODAY\u2019S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: THE REVISED SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO? PROGRAM\n\xa0An online coaching program designed to help you make the right decision about your marriage...once and for all.\xa0In this groundbreaking online coaching program, you\u2019ll unlock the support, education and deep transformational work you need to finally answer to your most burning question: should I stay or should I go? JOIN THE SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO FACEBOOK GROUP\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices