Episode 171: What Happens After You Leave Your Abusive Marriage? with Leanne Oaten
b'Leanne Oaten is back on the podcast! Listeners loved her previous episode so much that I invited her back to talk about what happens after you get out of an abusive relationship. We discuss the post-separation aftermath, which many women are not prepared for. Once all the dust settles and the reality sets in, questions and emotions bubble to the surface. We explore all the complexities of what happens when you re-awaken to life after domestic abuse.\\xa0\\nLeanne is a former counselor who helps women decide whether to stay or leave their toxic, abusive, narcissistic relationship without wasting time going to therapy.\\nShow Highlights\\n\\nWhy women begin to question the abuse that transpired after they get out (4:11)\\n\\nUsing apps is a good solution for co-parenting with an abusive ex (9:57)\\n\\nThe emotional aspect of what lies on the other side once you\\u2019ve separated (14:10)\\n\\nHow to prepare for the what happens to you emotionally and physically after leaving an abuser (19:19)\\n\\nSetting boundaries and understanding where to draw the line - also realize you aren\\u2019t going to do it perfectly (24:44)\\n\\nYou can be friendly with a co-parent but you don\\u2019t have to be friends (28:37)\\n\\nLearn more about Leanne Oaten\\nLeanne Oaten is a former counselor with over 9 years of experience coaching and supporting clients. After working in the counseling field in private practice for several years, she decided to go virtual with her business to serve women all over the world.\\xa0She educates and guides women who are experiencing narcissistic abuse to end the cycle and get clarity on whether to stay or leave.\\nLeanne Oaten founded Awakening Women Support in 2018 to begin sharing her unique and no bullsh*t perspectives on the patterns of narcissistic abuse and posts daily over on Instagram at instagram.com/awakeningwomensupport.\\nResources & Links:\\nInformation and links can also be found at: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/what-happens-after-you-leave-your-abusive-marriage-with-leanne-oaten/\\nSubmit your questions for a future Q&A episode!Leanne\\u2019s website How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship Lundy Bancroft episode Peaceful Parent App\\nTODAY\\u2019S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: THE DIVORCE SURVIVAL PROGRAM\\nAs one of the pioneers of the divorce coaching industry, I\\u2019ve been helping women (most of whom are moms) navigate the divorce process for the last decade.\\nAND NOW, FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER, ALL OF MY DIVORCE WISDOM IS AVAILABLE IN ONE ONLINE PROGRAM.\\nThis program is 100% for you if\\u2026\\n\\nYou\\u2019re a mom looking for a clear roadmap to a divorce that won\\u2019t destroy your kids\\n\\nYou\\u2019re looking for answers and a roadmap\\n\\nYou understand that divorce is a long game\\n\\nYou\\u2019re willing to put away your boxing gloves\\n\\nYou want this to be a respectful and collaborative process in service of your kids\\n\\nYou understand that divorce is, first and foremost, an emotional process and you\\u2019re ready to \\u2018go there\\u2019\\n\\nAre you ready to learn from one of the world\\u2019s top divorce experts and set yourself on the path towards the best possible outcome?\\nYEAH, Y\\u2019ARE!!!JOIN THE SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO FACEBOOK GROUP'