b"I am incredibly honored to have Lundy Bancroft on the show with me to talk about what life is like after domestic abuse, post-separation abuse, and healing from trauma.\\nLundy Bancroft is the author of five books in the field, including the national prize-winner The Batterer as Parent, Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, Daily Wisdom and Should I Stay Or Should I Go? He has worked with over a thousand abusers directly as an intervention counselor, and has served as clinical supervisor on another thousand cases\\nShow Highlights\\n\\nAcknowledging that you do have a right to be heard about the injustice that was done. But do it in a way that is not hurting you (8:20)\\n\\nWhat to do when you get in a custody dispute with your abuser, why you need an attorney who understands divorcing an abuser, as well as, what to know if you represent yourself (10:51)\\n\\nThe myth that a man can abuse a child\\u2019s mother and still be a great dad. It\\u2019s impossible. The single best predictor of how a man will treat their children is how they treat their child\\u2019s mother (28:34)\\n\\nHow a woman can increase her chance of a favorable divorce outcome (34:05)\\n\\nSocial change and what is really needed to reform the family court system (45:14)\\n\\nHow the fathers' rights movement is an abusers\\u2019 movement and what we can do in the face of it (50:37)\\n\\nLearn more about Lundy Bancroft:\\nLundy Bancroft is the author of five books in the field, including the national prize-winner The Batterer as Parent, Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, Daily Wisdom, and Should I Stay Or Should I Go? He has worked with over a thousand abusers directly as an intervention counselor and has served as a clinical supervisor on another thousand cases. He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness in domestic violence and child abuse cases. Lundy appears across the United States as a presenter for judges and other court personnel, child protective workers, therapists, law enforcement officials, and other audiences.\\nResources & Links:\\nLinks and resources may also be found at: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/lundy-bancroft\\nLast chance to Book a Sanity Saver Session in June!Lundy\\u2019s website\\xa0 Lundy\\u2019s books Mothers on the Rise\\nTODAY\\u2019S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: THE REVISED SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO? PROGRAM\\n\\xa0An online coaching program designed to help you make the right decision about your marriage...once and for all.\\xa0In this groundbreaking online coaching program, you\\u2019ll unlock the support, education and deep transformational work you need to finally answer to your most burning question: should I stay or should I go? JOIN THE SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO FACEBOOK GROUP\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices"