b'"Maybe you\\u2019re an introvert and your daughter turned out to be an extrovert. Maybe you always hoped for a daughter and ended up with three sons. Maybe you wanted an athlete. Or you wanted someone to hand over the family business to. Maybe, sometimes in secret, you wish you had a kid who was easier. Who didn\\u2019t struggle as yours does. Who was closer\\u2014in this way or that way\\u2014to some image you always had in your mind. Well, guess what? That\\u2019s a YOU problem. It\\u2019s certainly not their pro...'