The Stoics remind us not only to focus on what\u2019s in our control, but specifically in regards to aggravating people, they tell us that the best revenge is to not be like them. Don\u2019t be angry. Live well. Don\u2019t get sucked into a negative world, commit more deeply to a positive world that you do control\u2013the one you live in with your family. The one where your children will not exist forever\u2014so enjoy it now while you can.Put that energy where it counts. Put it where it makes you better.\u2709\ufe0f Sign up ...