Which Will It Be?
\u201cIn his Broadway show, Bruce Springsteen\u2014whose songs have often focused on the painful legacy of our parents\u2014explained the choice that all of us have as fathers. \u201cWe are ghosts or we are ancestors in our children's lives,\u201d he said at the beginning of Long Time Comin\u2019. \u201cWe either lay our mistakes, our burdens upon them, and we haunt them, or we assist them in laying those old burdens down, and we free them from the chain of our own flawed behavior. And as ancestors, we walk alongside o...