"When you look at champions\u2014in sports or politics or business\u2014it\u2019s hard not to detect a theme running through a lot of their motivations. Many of these superstars, be they men or women, are fighting for something. They want the approval of their father. They want to prove their worth to their families. They want to feel loved. They want to show that the doubt they experienced young or the trauma they endured was wrong and that they have survived. "Ryan shows how an ultra-competitive u...