We want such big things for and from our kids. Because we know what they\u2019re capable of. Because we have worked so hard to provide a better childhood for them than we had. Because we know the mistakes we made in our lives and want them to learn from them\u2013to pick up where we left off. We also know what has served us well, what we are capable of.But the problem with that is this: Our kids are not us. It\u2019s that simple. As much as they are like us in so many ways, they are their own people. They a...