b'\\u201cConnection first,\\u201d is Dr. Becky\\u2019s advice in Good Inside. Connection as opposed to shame, to criticism, to questions, to doubt, to consequences. There will be time for all that (except shame) later. \\u201cNow, to be clear,\\u201d Dr. Becky writes, \\u201cconnection does not mean approval\\u2026Connection is an opening that allows for movement. Connection is when we show our kids, \\u2018It\\u2019s okay to be you right now. Even when you\\u2019re struggling, it\\u2019s okay to be you. I am here with you, as you are.\\u2019\\u201d Let\\u2019s start by s...'