b'This change we\\u2019ve made, this decision to become dads\\u2014it has uprooted everything. It\\u2019s like we were hit, suddenly, with a crossfire hurricane. The house is a mess. The schedule is grueling. There is never enough sleep, never enough time in the day.Even the cool, quiet dark is pierced by the shriek of a man who has stepped on a pile of Legos\\u2026 and the shriek is coming from your mouth. Yet to be good at our jobs, to be good at this fatherhood thing, we need stillness. We need time to reflect. We ...'