"We tell our kids a lot of things. We tell them that we love them. That we\u2019ll support them no matter what. That they can come to us with anything. We also tell them little things: We tell them we\u2019ll be home by six. We tell them that if they clean up their toys they can have a treat. We tell them that sure, next time we\u2019re here, we can do what they want. We tell them when they\u2019re older, they can do this or that. It\u2019s not that we don\u2019t mean those little promises; it\u2019s jus...