Everyone says that becoming a parent changes you. The responsibility. The stress. The unconditional love. The cuteness. This is big stuff.But as the comedian Tom Segura observes in one of his great Netflix specials, it\u2019s wrong to say that it changes people\u2013that\u2019s just not the right language. It\u2019s that having kids should change you. If it doesn\u2019t he says, if you\u2019re still the same person? If you have the same routines, the same behaviors, the same priorities afterwards? That\u2019s a big problem! Yo...