b'Seeing your own parents now, as an adult, is stressful. There\\u2019s a great Ram Dass line that the comedian Pete Holmes has used in relation to his own parents: You think you\\u2019re enlightened\\u2014go spend a week with your family.The point is, having Mom and Dad come stay with you is few people\\u2019s idea of a relaxing weekend. It\\u2019s stranger still once you have kids, because suddenly you start to see and think about your own childhood differently. Some insights you get are good, but some of the beha...'