b'"When you\\u2019re gone, when they go through your stuff or when they talk to your friends at your funeral, it will be undeniable clearly: God, your dad just loved you so much. You were all he talked about. He was more proud of you than anything. Just look at all these photos he kept. And news clippings. And mementos. They\\u2019ll know this because it\\u2019s true, because the evidence will speak for itself. But what about, you know, if you speak for yourself?"Ryan explains why it\'s so impor...'