Episode 406 - The Dr. Cloud Show - Becoming a Free and Separate Person

Published: April 15, 2024, 11:16 p.m.

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You may think you are a separate and free person when you look in the mirror. You\\u2019re not physically attached to someone else. As a person connected to others through relationships however you might not be the free and separate person you see in the mirror. Dr. Henry Cloud talks about how so many of us are not free and separate people within our relationships. You might not be in charge of making decisions, someone might be controlling the decisions and behaviors that should be yours! Here\\u2019s the question: Right now, do you have any relationships where you don\\u2019t experience yourself as free to make your own choices without losing love? Free to make your own choices without a guilt trip being put on you? Free to make your own choices without them pouting and feeling abandoned? Dr. Cloud teaches you ways to start regaining your freedom by using boundaries to limit the control others have over you.\\xa0

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Audience Write-in Question:

My boyfriend gets jealous easily, but my friends say that means he really loves me. Is that true, or is this a problem?

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Kimberly has a 23 year old son that went through a truly terrible break up. He\\u2019s extremely depressed. She and her husband are actively getting them help but they don\\u2019t know what to do next.

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Sal\\u2019s wife wants a divorce. She\\u2019s said she doesn\\u2019t love him and doesn\\u2019t know if she ever really did. What can he do to open up communication and how can he deal with the heartache?

Being estranged from someone you once were close to can be a painful reality to live in. Should you reconcile? When? How? How can we fix the pain of estrangement? Does it get easier? What is my role in this process? What is mine to own? What should I do?

Dr. Cloud wants to help you navigate this terrain.\\xa0 Go to https://boundaries.me/reconcile to find out more about the 2 hour live webinar with Dr. Cloud.

If you want to call in or watch the show live, subscribe on YouTube and click the Bell icon. It will alert you whenever we go live and will be your cue to call in and ask Dr. Cloud for advice.

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