5. Stop Doing This, Just Because He Likes You!

Published: Sept. 17, 2020, 1 p.m.

 I remember when I posted my first blog back in early 2018. I did it the midst of full shame of what I allowed a man to put me through but I knew that my story would be healing for me AND other women. \u2063

\n

\u2063I didn\u2019t know then I would create Single You but \U0001d644 \U0001d660\U0001d663\U0001d65a\U0001d66c \U0001d644 \U0001d66c\U0001d656\U0001d663\U0001d669\U0001d65a\U0001d659 \U0001d669\U0001d664 \U0001d65d\U0001d65a\U0001d661\U0001d665 \U0001d656 \U0001d66c\U0001d664\U0001d662\U0001d656\U0001d663, \U0001d664\U0001d663\U0001d65a \U0001d66c\U0001d664\U0001d662\U0001d656\U0001d663, \U0001d656\U0001d663\U0001d66e \U0001d66c\U0001d664\U0001d662\U0001d656\U0001d663 \U0001d664\U0001d66b\U0001d65a\U0001d667\U0001d658\U0001d664\U0001d662\U0001d65a \U0001d66c\U0001d65d\U0001d656\U0001d669 \U0001d644 \U0001d65f\U0001d66a\U0001d668\U0001d669 \U0001d66c\U0001d65a\U0001d663\U0001d669 \U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d667\U0001d664\U0001d66a\U0001d65c\U0001d65d. I knew that sharing my story and pushing aside shame, was the formula. \u2063

\n

\u201c\U0001d64b\U0001d65a\U0001d664\U0001d665\U0001d661\U0001d65a \U0001d66c\U0001d65e\U0001d661\U0001d661 \U0001d656\U0001d661\U0001d66c\U0001d656\U0001d66e\U0001d668 \U0001d656\U0001d659\U0001d662\U0001d65e\U0001d667\U0001d65a \U0001d66e\U0001d664\U0001d66a\U0001d667 \U0001d668\U0001d669\U0001d667\U0001d65a\U0001d663\U0001d65c\U0001d669\U0001d65d \U0001d657\U0001d66a\U0001d669 \U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d65a\U0001d66e \U0001d667\U0001d65a\U0001d661\U0001d656\U0001d669\U0001d65a \U0001d669\U0001d664 \U0001d66e\U0001d664\U0001d66a\U0001d667 \U0001d66c\U0001d65a\U0001d656\U0001d660\U0001d663\U0001d65a\U0001d668\U0001d668\U0001d65a\U0001d668\u201d - \U0001d63e\U0001d65d\U0001d656\U0001d659 \U0001d651\U0001d65a\U0001d656\U0001d658\U0001d65d\u2063

\n


\n

Cut to 2020 and I\u2019ve helped MORE than just one woman...

\n

I have a story I want to share with you about one for my clients. Let\u2019s see if YOU can relate to one of my clients. I continue to share knowing if you see you in me and/or my clients, then you will..,\u2063

\n

1. Feel less alone \u20632. Know I can help YOU\u2063

\n


\n

Me: So why Single You? Why do you want to work on yourself now? \u2063

\n

\u2063

\n

Her: I date the same type of men because, like you said before, it's like I'm happy that they chose me. So it's like, 'Oh, you chose me. Okay, I'm going to sacrifice what I know I don't want to sacrifice just because you chose me.\u2063

\n

\u2063

\n

\U0001d644 \U0001d665\U0001d66a\U0001d669 \U0001d65a\U0001d66b\U0001d65a\U0001d667\U0001d66e\U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d65e\U0001d663\U0001d65c \U0001d65e\U0001d663\U0001d669\U0001d664 \U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d65a\U0001d668\U0001d65a \U0001d65c\U0001d66a\U0001d66e\U0001d668, \U0001d656\U0001d663\U0001d659 \U0001d644 \U0001d65c\U0001d65e\U0001d66b\U0001d65a \U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d65a\U0001d662 \U0001d65a\U0001d66b\U0001d65a\U0001d667\U0001d66e\U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d65e\U0001d663\U0001d65c. \U0001d63c\U0001d663\U0001d659 \U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d65a\U0001d663 \U0001d65e\U0001d669'\U0001d668 \U0001d661\U0001d65e\U0001d660\U0001d65a \U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d65a\U0001d66e \U0001d65f\U0001d66a\U0001d668\U0001d669 \U0001d661\U0001d65a\U0001d656\U0001d66b\U0001d65a, \U0001d656\U0001d663\U0001d659 \U0001d644 \U0001d65c\U0001d65a\U0001d669 \U0001d668\U0001d65a\U0001d669 \U0001d656\U0001d668\U0001d65e\U0001d659\U0001d65a \U0001d661\U0001d65e\U0001d660\U0001d65a \U0001d644'\U0001d662 \U0001d669\U0001d667\U0001d656\U0001d668\U0001d65d. \U0001d644'\U0001d662 \U0001d668\U0001d65e\U0001d658\U0001d660 \U0001d664\U0001d65b \U0001d65e\U0001d669.\u2063

\n

Can you relate to that story? Is that you.\u2063

\n


\n

Cut to July 2020\u2063

\n

\u2063Her: Reka, I've been slowly catching up with the videos, the curriculum, and I'm halfway through relational intelligence. I'm using your info in my daily life. \u2063

\n

\u2063I dated another guy just recently, but I realized his behavior and continued to entertain him for a bit. However, \U0001d65e\U0001d663 \U0001d669\U0001d65d\U0001d65a \U0001d665\U0001d656\U0001d668\U0001d669 \U0001d644 \U0001d66c\U0001d664\U0001d66a\U0001d661\U0001d659 \U0001d657\U0001d65a \U0001d658\U0001d661\U0001d66a\U0001d65a\U0001d661\U0001d65a\U0001d668\U0001d668 \U0001d669\U0001d664 \U0001d662\U0001d66e \U0001d657\U0001d65a\U0001d65d\U0001d656\U0001d66b\U0001d65e\U0001d664\U0001d667. \U0001d63d\U0001d66a\U0001d669 \U0001d663\U0001d664\U0001d66c \U0001d66c\U0001d65e\U0001d669\U0001d65d \U0001d66e\U0001d664\U0001d66a\U0001d667 \U0001d65d\U0001d65a\U0001d661\U0001d665, \U0001d644 \U0001d656\U0001d662 \U0001d662\U0001d664\U0001d667\U0001d65a \U0001d658\U0001d661\U0001d65a\U0001d656\U0001d667 \U0001d664\U0001d65b \U0001d662\U0001d66e \U0001d657\U0001d656\U0001d659 \U0001d657\U0001d65a\U0001d65d\U0001d656\U0001d66b\U0001d65e\U0001d664\U0001d667. Joining Single You, joining your group was one of the best investments I made in 2020.\u2063

\n


\n

XO, Reka\u2063 

\n

The Single Girls Life Coach\u2063

\n

www.single-you.com \u2063

\n

\u2063

\n\n--- \n\nSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/singleyou/support