19. What I Wish the Church Taught Single Women (With Pastor Marlando Jordan)
Why is their so much pressure in the church to get married? How should we be dating?
\n"What you believe is what you do." - Pastor Marlando Jordan
\nThe books we suggested you can buy here.
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- The Right One by Frank Martin and Jimmy Evans \n
- Relationships Goals by Mike Todd \n
- Relational Intelligence by Dharius Daniels \n
\n"So what you believe is what you do. So if somebody says, "I believe it's important to pray and talk to God every day and I believe I should read my Bible every day." Then the lady should say, "Well, do you do that?"
If he says, "No, I don't." So then an honest answer for him would be, "I don't believe it's important to read my Bible and pray every day because I don't do it." Some people try to separate their beliefs from their behavior, and you cannot. You cannot separate your belief from your behavior. - Marlando Jordan
\nPastor Marlando\u2019s desire is to bring the message of reconciliation to those who do not have a relationship with the Lord and to establish, equip and empower believers to be radical disciples of Christ. His enthusiasm, passion and love for God and people, brings a unique and bold style of teaching and preaching.
\nMarlando Jordan currently serves as the Senior Pastor Sozo Church in Kennewick, Washington. Pastor Marlando and his wife Megan live in Pasco, WA, they\u2019ve been married since 2003 and are the proud parents of their two children, Isaiah and Annabelle.
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\nSis, let's talk. He can't say he loves you and is treating you like yesterday's trash or heck today's. He can not say that. He may want to love you but I'd argue he has zero idea what love is. How many books has he read on love? How many people with happy marriages has he talked to about love? How about you? When you want to be a doctor or a lawyer you know you have to go to school for that. You know exactly where to go but where do you go if you want to be in love? Where are we learning what love is? [ Single You Academy ]
\nHow are we learning to have healthy relationships?
\nAlso you can't say you know your worth and continue to be treated like crap. You are your behavior and your behavior is showing that you allow the revolving door of dysfunctional relationships. Your behavior is showing you- you tie your identity to men and he's your world, not you. What are you getting out of that?
\nWhenever you're ready to discover your worth so that you can stop tying your identity to men. I'm ready for you.
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\n - Join the Free Facebook Group "Singleness is Not a Punishment."
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\nXo Reka
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