EP 451: How to Develop Self Confidence

Published: Feb. 23, 2021, 10:07 p.m.

As we practice mindfulness and develop the skills to be present, accepting, compassionate, and curious, we cultivate a keen level of self awareness.

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Self awareness allows us to self-regulate.

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It\u2019s not that we\u2019re aware of some secret mechanism to regulate our bodies and nervous systems.

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It\u2019s more about perspective.

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In today\u2019s episode, I use the example of a Rottweiler.

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A full grown Rottweiler is a big and scary dog. In fact, trained the right way, it could quite literally kill an adult human with little trouble.

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A Rottweiler puppy is made of the same stuff and, without any major transformation, will grow into the same potentially dangerous dog as the adult.

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But it\u2019s a puppy!

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So I could just pick it up and nuzzle and kiss it. There is no danger whatsoever.

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Our emotions are the same way!

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Rage arising from anger can hijack your day and cause weeks of trouble for you.

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But the emotions that led to the anger and rage were, at one point, little puppies of emotions.

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And if you could see them when they were so small, like a puppy, you could very easily avoid the hijack.

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But wait! There\u2019s more!!!

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As we grow into this skill, we become self confident.

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This is because we know that with the awareness we will be able to handle whatever situation comes our way.

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Would you like to be more self confident?