How often do you find yourself defending your ideas, opinions, beliefs, or convictions?
\nIf you\u2019re like I used to be, you\u2019ll fall in your sword before you\u2019ll admit that maybe your ideas and opinions are wrong in some way.
\nAnd the same is true for our thoughts.
\nWhen a thought pops into our mind, seemingly from nowhere, we are willing to believe the thought is true without the slightest challenge.
\nWhich is fascinating, because our thoughts don\u2019t come from nowhere.
\nOur thoughts arise from our memories.
\nAnd many, if not most, of our memories are implicit and passed down from generations of ancestors.
\nSo how are these thoughts \u2018ours\u2019?
\nIf we can apply some curiosity to this process, we can discern whether the thoughts, opinions, beliefs, or convictions are truly serving us.
\nThat is, are they contributing to our growth and well being? Or are they detracting from our growth and well being?
\nIf the latter is true, then defending these thoughts and convictions is a form of practicing un-wellness.
\nAnd when we find ourselves practicing un-wellness, we have the choice to let it go and practice well-being.
\nWithout curiosity, we simply unconsciously keep practicing that which causes us suffering.
\nWhat do you think about this?