#168: A Day In The Life Of Ray
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\\u201cSo, what do you do every day? What\'s typical \\xa0day like in your life?\\u201d
I am asked this question, or something similar, often\\xa0enough that I thought it might be worth answering in a podcast episode. This show is entitled, \\u201cA Day in the Life of Ray\\u201d. Other reasons to listen:
- How to see more good days than bad, from now on.
- A service that allows you to easily build beautiful process documentation for your business and your team.
- An encore presentation of the Masterclass, \\u201cHow To Write A Sales Page That Rakes In $10 Million\\u201d.
- How to get promoted on this show to my audience.
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Spiritual Foundations
No More Bad Days
Recently I\'ve seen two friends go through a battle with cancer, and I saw first hand how we are in control of our response to what happens to us. Regardless of your circumstances, whether you have a good day or a bad day is really up to you
Shakespeare wrote in Hamlet that, \\u201cthere is nothing\\xa0either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.\\u201d
Proverbs 23:7 says, \\u201cFor as he thinks within himself, so he is.\\u201d (NASB)
There are 3\\xa0keys to stepping into a life with no more bad days.
Key #1: Set Up a Rule You Can Always Meet In Order to Have a\\xa0Good Day.
Tony Robbins tells the story of two different gentlemen who attended one of his exclusive seminars in Fiji.
One gentleman was a billionaire, a high achiever. The other was successful in many ways, but\\xa0not someone with extraordinary income.
Tony noticed that the billionaire seemed to be miserable, while the more average gentleman seemed to be extraordinarily happy. So Tony\\xa0asked each man what was required in order for him to have a good day.
The billionaire gave a long list of requirements that had to be met, including the amount of time he exercised, his target heart rate, his perfect diet, achieving certain financial milestones in his business, certain processes that had to happen correctly without fail, and a long list of things that must\\xa0happen in order for him to have a good day.
When Tony asked the gentleman who was a more moderate financial success about his rule for having a good day, the man replied with a big smile: \\u201cIt\'s simple. Every day above ground is a good day.\\u201d
You get to set up the rule for what makes a good day. Why not make it one you can meet?
Key #2: Change the Way You Interpret What Happens to You.
The lens we used to look at the world tends to control what we see. There is the story that is told about to traveling salesmen, each of whom had a conversation with the same farmer at the corner of his field near the road. The first asked him, \\u201cHey! What kind of people live around here?\\u201d
The farmer replied, \\u201cWell, what kind of people did you find in the last place you visited?\\u201d
The salesman grimaced and said, \\u201cA bunch of dishonest, ornery, inhospitable scoundrels.\\u201d
The farmer nodded, and said, \\u201cI expect you\'ll find the same sort of people around here.\\u201d
The next day, a different traveling salesman encountered that same farmer at the corner of his field. This new salesman had a big smile on his face and said, \\u201cHello!\\xa0What a beautiful day, and what a beautiful farm you have! I wonder if I might ask you, what sort of people will I find around here?\\u201d
Farmer grinned, and asked, \\u201cwhat sort of people did you find in the last place you visited?\\u201d
\\u201cA lot of generous, happy, open hearted and welcoming people. That place was a real joy to visit!\\u201d
The farmer smiled, and said, \\u201cI expect you\'ll find the same sort of people around here.\\u201d
What we expect informs our interpretation of what we experience. The environment inside our heads controls the environment outside our heads. What we think about tends to be what we experience.
Key #3: Have Biblical Hope.
The word \\u201chope\\u201d means something different in the Bible than what we typically mean by the word hope in our culture.
In modern culture, \\u201chope\\u201d is a wishy-washy, half in, half out milquetoast way of thinking. If we say we \\u201chope\\u201d something will happen in a certain way, what we are really saying is, in effect, \\u201cI wish it would happen this way, but I know it probably won\'t.\\u201d
On the other hand, typical hope can be defined as \\u201cthe positive expectation of good things.\\u201d That\'s why our life of faith is referred to as \\u201chope that does not disappoint\\u201d. And there are plenty of reasons to believe this hope of the Bible is for real.
In the book of Romans, we are told that God makes \\u201call things work for the good of those who love Him.\\u201d
Jesus exhorted us not to worry about things we need in everyday life, but to trust that our Father in heaven is a good father, and he knows how to take care of his children, and that he will always give us what is best for us.
Sometimes we may not be able to see how that is true, because we don\'t have his perspective. Just as a child might be upset when a parent roughly grabs them by the arms, yanks them off the ground, and throws them to the ground. The child may believe this was mean and cruel behavior, not realizing that their father just yanked them out of the way of an\\xa0oncoming car, and saved their life.
What\'s more, according to the Bible we know that the things that we speak and think have spiritual power to change what actually happens to us. I would encourage you to think about things that are good and positive. You may not be able to control your feelings, but you can certainly take control of your thoughts.
The Apostle Paul put it this way: \\u201cWhatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.\\u201d\\xa0Philippians 4:8 (ESV)
I don\'t have \\u201czero bad days\\u201d just yet\\u2026 But I have many more good days than\\xa0bad ones, and that ratio is always improving. I believe it is because I\\xa0use the 3\\xa0keys to unlock the door to more good days:
- Set up an easy-to-meet rule for what makes a good day.
- Change the way you interpret what happens to you.
- Have biblical hope. A \\u201cpositive expectation of good things.\\u201d
Tip Of the Week
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- Adds value to my\\xa0business.\\xa0A business built on a foundation of well-documented Standard Operating Procedures (SOP) has a higher value, which grows over time.
- Forces me to evaluate processes. As I think through the steps, I am forced to ask, \\u201cIs this the best way to do this?\\u201d I have discovered and eliminated many inefficiencies as a result.
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Feature Presentation:\\xa0A Day in the Life of Ray
- Rise at 4 AM
- Make bed
- Pray
- Meditate
- Brush teeth, shave
- Take care of dogs
- Drink 12 ounces of water
- Take communion
- Worship
- Make declarations
- Protein shake
- Bulletproof coffee
- Bible
- Classical music
- Read spiritual book
- Read nonfiction book
- Take morning meds at 6AM
- Journal
- Listen to a grace centered message
- Lumosity
- Check mint
- Create content starting at 7AM \\u2013 Noon
- Lunch NOON \\u2013 1PM
- Do admin work
- Exercise for 60 minutes 3PM
- Spend time with family 4:30 PM
- In bed by 9pm
What\'s a day in your life like? What are some parts of your daily routine your consider non-negotiable?
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