The Reprioritization of Relationship (Lori Gottlieb)

Published: Dec. 9, 2021, 8:01 a.m.

\u201cI think what COVID did was it really made people realize that the state of their emotions, the state of their relationships, all of those things that felt very optional, meaning they were important to people, but in the rushing around of daily life, you, you could kind of ignore them a little bit. Um, you know, you didn't have to really think about them or face them. They weren't, a mirror was not being held up to you in the way that it was during COVID. And so I think that the, the good thing that came out of all of this is that people really said, oh, I want to understand this better.\u201d\nSo says Lori Gottlieb, one of my favorite conversation partners. Lori is a psychotherapist and the author of the bestselling MAYBE YOU SHOULD TALK TO SOMEONE, which is a brilliant exploration of what it means to be in therapy and be a therapist\u2014in her storytelling, she manages to touch on everything from existential anxiety to inconceivable loss. She\u2019s also the co-host of the DEAR THERAPIST podcast, a brilliant show that tackles peoples\u2019 real problems, like narcissistic partners and parental alienation. In today\u2019s episode of this podcast, Lori and I get into the impact of COVID on our partnerships, the often uncredited grief of single people, and how we can come to deepen the intimacy of our most important relationships, whether they\u2019re with lovers, friends, family, or even co-workers.\n\nEPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:\n\nWe\u2019re all unreliable narrators\u2026(6:05)\n\nEmotional egalitarianism\u2026(16:00)\n\nCOVID and the great reprioritization\u2026(22:53)\n\nWhen is it time to let a relationship go...(36:44)\n\n\nMORE FROM LORI:\nMaybe You Should Talk to Someone\nMaybe You Should Talk to Someone: The Workbook\nDear Therapists Podcast\nLori's Website\nLori's Instagram\n \nTo learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy\n \n Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices