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Introduction:

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• Who do you want to be vs. who you really are
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• How your unhappiness has everything to do with how you see yourself, others, and the world.
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Segment 1: What is Dissonance? (00:02:15)

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• Understand dissonance as a feeling of being out of alignment with your ideal self.
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• Relate dissonance to beliefs, actions, and thoughts.
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• Listen to specific examples to grasp the concept better.
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Segment 2: Recognizing Dissonance (00:04:00)

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• Honestly assess your alignment with your desired self.
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• Reflect on whether you genuinely like yourself and whether you match up your past aspirations.
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Segment 3: Choosing Your Thoughts (00:06:30)

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• Contemplate past moments of unhappiness and self-questioning.
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• Recognize the tendency to blame external factors when feeling out of alignment.
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• Grasp the significance of the term "dissonance."
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Segment 4: The Impact of Our Thoughts (00:09:45)

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• Learn from Viktor Frankl's experiences during the Holocaust.
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• Understand how thoughts influence your perception and response to circumstances.
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• Understand that suffering is often a result of your thoughts.
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Segment 5: Getting Out of the Box (00:13:30)

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• Comprehend the concept of being "in the box" and its effects on emotions and physical well-being.
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• Realize that staying in the box, even if you're right, is a choice and will lead to suffering 100% of the time
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• Create an alternate story to shift your perspective and observe how it affects your feelings and reactions.
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Segment 6: Self-Reflection and Accountability (00:16:45)

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• Commit to daily reflection, journaling, or seeking support from others to acknowledge the times you're in the box
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• Understand that no one else can put you in the box; you are responsible for your thoughts and reactions. You put yourself in the box
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