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In this episode, Christine Hassler speaks with Sabrina, a single mom struggling to break the cycle of emotional unavailability that has plagued her family for generations. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, healing past wounds, and creating a safe and supportive environment for Sabrina's son.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

• Did you have a parent who was unavailable, and does feeling disconnected or dismissed trigger you?
• Are you a parent struggling with your child's independence and need for space?
• Do you know that healing starts within, but you're unsure how to begin?

Guest Insights:

• Sabrina's Background:\xa0Sabrina is a single mom whose parents were emotionally unavailable. She recognizes that her father's drinking and her mother's choice of a similarly unavailable partner impacted her.
• Current Struggle:\xa0Sabrina wants to break this cycle with her 12-year-old son, who is becoming more distant as he grows older.
• Coaching Challenges:\xa0Sabrina's tendency to over-coach and talk too much pushes her son away. Her unresolved anger towards men and trust issues further complicate her relationship with her son.

A-Ha Moments:

• Mirror Effect:\xa0Children reflect on their parents' unresolved issues. Sabrina's son is mirroring her feelings of being dismissed and not prioritized.
• Generational Patterns:\xa0Breaking the cycle starts with addressing her inner child wounds and not projecting unmet needs onto her son.
• Letting Go:\xa0Sabrina needs to let her son navigate his relationship with his father on his terms and provide unconditional support without overstepping.

How to Get Over It:

• Self-Compassion:\xa0Acknowledge and be proud of the effort and awareness in tackling tough parental questions.
• Inner Child Work:\xa0Engage in healing work to address unresolved anger and grief towards men and her childhood experiences.
• Space and Support:\xa0Allow her son to explore his relationship with his father while being a supportive presence, not an overprotective one.
• Professional Help:\xa0Consider working with a coach or therapist to navigate the challenges of parenting a tween and personal healing.

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Join us next week for another insightful episode where we help you get over it and on with the life you love.