This episode is about navigating a different path than your family. Today\u2019s caller, George, grew up in a healthy family environment but always felt he was on a different spiritual path than the rest of his family. He asks for guidance about accepting differences and for practices to heal his inner child. If you are a generational pattern breaker, or if you are choosing a different path than the one your family is on, this episode offers guidance for you too.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode384]
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For many generational pattern breakers, we are conflicted between our soul path and our family lineage. We are born knowing we are on a different path. We all come into life with our level of consciousness, the beliefs we adhere to, and our soul path. It may be difficult to understand when all the other members of a family are committed to something we may not be committed to. We have the family we are born into and then we find our soul family.
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When we choose something different, it can feel terrifying to break out of the family norm. One of our survival needs is wired to our nervous system and the part of our nervous system that is connected to fight, flight, freeze, or fawn is belonging. When we sever any type of tie to family, even if we can logically understand it, it still wakes up our need for belonging. It can bring up feelings of guilt or shame.
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We believe that our family should be the ones who know us best but sometimes they are not. And, that is okay. It doesn\u2019t mean we can\u2019t love them or have a relationship with them, it just means that we find our soul family in other places.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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George\u2019s Question:
George wants to know how to navigate and set boundaries within the relationship he has with his family.
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George\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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