This episode is the first of a three-part couples coaching series. Christine coaches Claire and Jimmy separately, and then together in Part 3. In today\u2019s call, Claire reveals she would like Jimmy to make plans with her and make her a priority in his life. Christine uncovers some childhood patterns that may be at play in Claire\u2019s current relationship.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode374]
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When there is something that is bothering us and we are unable to shift it, we need to dig deeper. It is normal for us to be able to identify what is going on with someone else yet still to be blind to our own blocks. When we finally see it we realize how obvious it was but it is hard to see. We often just want to notice the current problem and fix our relationship, versus going back to see what it reminds us of in our past.
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Things in our lives will continue to be frustrating until we unpack the message they are illuminating.
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When we take the time to work on ourselves first, often it offers more clarity about issues in our relationships. We can\u2019t work on issues in our relationships without working on ourselves.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Claire\u2019s Question:
Claire would like guidance about how she can feel like a priority in her partner\u2019s life.
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Claire\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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