This episode is about standing up for yourself in a relationship. Today\u2019s caller, Marc, feels a shift in his 20-year marriage. He is willing to work on the relationship but his wife is avoiding it. This episode is relatable to many people because we discuss why he doesn\u2019t take a stand for himself and how it takes two people to make a relationship work.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode360]
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Many midlife crises happen because people find themselves in a place where they can\u2019t suppress anymore. Often, their kids are older, they are set in their careers, and their life is a bit more predictable, then all of a sudden they find it difficult to suppress what they feel they have missed out on.
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When an individual feels they\u2019ve sacrificed a lot of their life in parenthood or the like, a sense of selfishness or entitlement bubbles up and they go in the opposite direction of where they have been. And, a person who is more reactive and triggered shouldn\u2019t be leading a relationship because they will lead the relationship to a dead end.
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Sometimes our less obvious wounds are more impactful. A lot of time the person who holds the more feminine pole in a relationship often wants the masculine pole to lead, to come to us and let us know when things are off.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Marc\u2019s Question:
Marc noticed a shift in his 20-year marriage. He feels as if he is in limbo. He is asking for guidance on what his next steps should be.
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Marc\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Resources:
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Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler
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