This episode is about releasing addictive patterns by remembering the love within us. Today\u2019s caller, Linda, recently ended an on-again-off-again two-year relationship. She questions which wounds are causing her patterns. We discuss her soul\u2019s journey, how she is not broken, and how she can help herself feel safe, seen, and loved.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode300]
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It is often unresolved issues from our past hurts, wounds, and things that were hard to go through that impacted our beliefs, attachment style, trauma response, and psyche. However, it is important not to see ourselves as wounded or broken. Personal development is best addressed as a learning opportunity, not from a fix-it mindset.
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When we don\u2019t have a great model for love and when we feel worthless, relationships, even unhealthy ones, are going to be addictive. Because, often, we confuse love for something familiar.
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Even if you are an addict or have been in the past it doesn\u2019t mean you haven\u2019t made progress. Just the fact you\u2019re listening to this show and this kind of information, means you are a seeker. You want out of the addiction, patterns, bad relationships, and the scarcity mentality. It can be frustrating if you feel you have a long way to go but acknowledge the wisdom of your soul for at least getting you to where you are now.
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You will get farther if you continue to be proud of yourself for where you are.
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Consider/Ask Yourself
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Linda\u2019s Question:
Linda has been in an on-and-off relationship and would like to know which childhood wound is creating this pattern.
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Linda\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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