This episode is about honoring your needs and speaking your truth. I coach today\u2019s caller, Judy, through her feelings of isolation and empower her to have an honest conversation with her husband and herself about her needs.
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[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode287]
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Loneliness is an epidemic, especially in this day and age when so many of us live alone. We are not close to our family geographically or we don\u2019t have a soul family or community to be a part of. We need a healing connection. We need to feel part of something, part of a tribe. We need to feel connected to ourselves. What often perpetuates a feeling of loneliness is a disconnection from ourselves that comes from judging ourselves and being hard on ourselves. If you suffer from loneliness or a lack of self-esteem, you are not alone. Let the fact that you are not alone motivate you to gain confidence and to connect with a community.
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Speaking your truth is when you say what\u2019s true for you and you are able to communicate your needs. When are you not speaking your truth?
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Many of us think people-pleasing is a way to get love and find validation. We think if people see the real us, they may not like us. The more you show the real you and the more authentic you are, your relationship with yourself will improve, your self-esteem will improve, and the intimacy and connection you have with other people will also improve.
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It\u2019s great to make other people happy but it\u2019s more important to please ourselves first by making self-honoring choices. People-pleasing could be the reason you are feeling isolated. On some level, people-pleasing is draining.
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Drop the people-pleasing, up your self-esteem by making self-honoring choices, and get out there and find your tribe!
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Judy\u2019s Question:
Judy wants to know how to find herself and how to raise her self-esteem.
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Judy\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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Resources:
Christine Hassler \u2014 Join the Free Over It and On With It Community
Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler
@ChristineHassler on Instagram
@SacredUnionCouples on Instagram
Assist@ChristineHassler.com
Jill@ChristineHassler.com \u2014 For information on any of my services.
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