This call is about moving out of victim and regret to fast-track healing. Today\u2019s caller, Leah, is still getting over a breakup and is starting to feel hopeless about the marriage and family she wants to call in. Even if you haven\u2019t had a breakup, this call is for anyone who is not where they want to be in life. It is a great example of what happens when we stay in the victim-perpetrator pattern.
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode277]
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If you have been in a relationship or a situation you felt was a waste of time and wish you wouldn't have done it, understand that it had happened to get you into the fast lane for healing. Issue-based relationships, even though they are difficult to go through, they jolt us into recognizing childhood wounds that need to be healed for us to have healthy adult relationships.
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If we want a healthy, authentic relationship that is not a repeat of our childhood issues, we need to do the inner work. There are no \u201cblocks\u201d to what we want, there are just unresolved issues to what we haven\u2019t healed. We have to do the healing work before we can attract healthy things.
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Let\u2019s transition into 2021 together. In the latest Coaches Corner, I add a ritual to wrap up 2020.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Leah\u2019s Question:
Leah would like guidance on how to get over a bad breakup and begin to manifest a healthy, long-term relationship.
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Leah\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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Resources:
Christine Hassler \u2014 Join the Free Over It and On With It Community
Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler
@ChristineHassler on Instagram
@SacredUnionCouples on Instagram
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