This call is about eliminating the imprints put on us by other people. Today\u2019s caller, Rory, has childhood wounding from her father\u2019s verbal abuse and her mother\u2019s lack of support. She feels stuck in her life but she is just in a loop of patterns she created to cope with not getting what she needed as a child.\xa0
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[For show notes, go here: Christinehassler.com/episode266]
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Whatever parent\u2019s love we crave most or whichever parent we felt the most distant from is usually who we tend to find a relationship with or we model ourselves after. And, that is what we are always chasing as an adult.
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We want our parents to be proud of us but especially our fathers. Knowing your dad is proud of you is massive. We want to know our mom loves us unconditionally and dad is really proud of us. It helps our self-esteem.
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If you are someone who feels stuck, realize you are not stuck. You are just caught in a loop based on your imprints and your patterns and your wounding. You have to find an exit route. And, often the exit route is what you did not get as a child that you need to give yourself.
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People are often good at giving others what they are horrible about giving to themselves. You may be nurturing and compassionate towards others but hard on yourself. Or, patient with others but completely impatient with yourself. Anything we give in overflow to others is what we need to give ourselves.
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What are you giving that you\u2019re not receiving?
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Rory\u2019s Question:
Rory feels she has hit a wall and doesn\u2019t understand why she doesn\u2019t finish things she starts.
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Rory\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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Resources:
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Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler
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