This call is about maintaining boundaries when dealing with anger or rage. Today\u2019s caller, Dana, is in a difficult situation. Her husband rages out at her and her children, but she loves him and wants the relationship to work. We work through ways she can maintain her boundaries and ways she can show up in the relationship to create a cohesive healing environment.
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[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode260]
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First, if you are in a situation where there is a cycle of abuse get clear about whether you need to leave or if you need to reach out for support for assistance.
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Anyone who has been abused and then becomes abusive has a great deal of shame. One thing we know to be true is that love is incredibly healing. And, often when someone is in an environment where they do not feel judged, their protective behaviors begin to fade. Creating a loving, non-judgmental, feminine space for the person may help them heal.
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Remember, feminine energy is not weak or submissive. We don\u2019t just tolerate whatever happens to keep the peace and love everything. Feminine energy is fiercely loving and compassionate. It\u2019s the combination of compassion and nurturing that holds space and is non-judgmental but also the protective mama bear.
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If you missed the Inner Child workshop, you can still listen to it. It is necessary if you want to join in for Level 2, which begins Sept. 25th. Go to ChristineHassler.com/innerchild.
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This is a trying time emotionally, mentally, and financially, so in October, I am giving away $5,000 in personal development grant money. Ten people will receive $500 to invest in themselves. We are also enrolling angels who would like to make a financial contribution to someone else\u2019s personal development, go to ChristineHassler.com/grant to get more information. I will announce the grant recipients on an Instagram Live.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Dana\u2019s Question:
Dana would like guidance on how to hold boundaries when it comes to dealing with her husband\u2019s anger.
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Dana\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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