This call is about self-compassion and empowerment. Today\u2019s caller, Alex, judges herself for not being where she feels she \u2018should\u2019 be in life and for not breaking free from a toxic relationship. She wants guidance on how to move forward but must first work through her unresolved wounding. No one makes significant changes by beating themselves up. True transformation and true change come from love.
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[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode247]
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When we judge ourselves as a failure we continue to feel like a failure because adding judgment only creates more self-loathing and it lowers our self-worth. It\u2019s important to know that at any given moment we are doing the best we can at the time.
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\xa0It\u2019s not an excuse not to do better. It is like Maya Angelou says \u2018the first time you didn\u2019t know any better, the second time you know better, so do better.\u2019 We always have the opportunity. There is always another time. The amazing thing about life is that as time keeps going on we are consistently presented with additional opportunities to do better. But, if you look back and only see yourself as a failure you\u2019re not going to have the confidence and self-love you need to actually do better the next time you will just keep repeating the same \u2018failure.\u2019
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It is important that we feel empowered so we don\u2019t give our power away to others or exert our power over others.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
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Alex\u2019s Question:
Alex is tired of feeling like a victim and would like clarity on how to move forward in her life.
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Alex\u2019s Key Insights and Ahas:
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How to Get Over It and On With It:
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Takeaways:
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Resources:
Christine Hassler \u2014 Join the Free Over It and On With It Community
Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner
Expectation Hangover, by Christine Hassler
@ChristineHassler on Instagram
Assist@ChristineHassler.com
Jill@ChristineHassler.com \u2014 For information on any of my services.
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