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Have you ever had something come back around like a romantic relationship, friendship, job or career path that you thought was over? Or perhaps you\u2019ve gotten a second chance with a different situation or cast of characters.\xa0 Like a new relationship after a divorce or a job after being laid off. Or even your health after getting to the other side of an illness. Second chances do happen for all of us and when they do, it is important that we apply the lessons we learned the first time around. Many of us are great about doing this because we are intentional about not wanting to repeat the same kind of what we\u2019d call mistakes again.\xa0 We approach second chances with gratitude and excitement. But second chances can also produce fear.\xa0 What is fascinating (and rather sad) about us humans sometimes is that the closer what we truly wants gets, the more we attempt to push it away.\xa0 Obviously this is not a conscious thing we do, the saboteur is very sneaky\u2026yet powerful. And the reason we sabotage is because we have not fully healed the core issues and misunderstandings around love and worthiness.\xa0 \xa0 You\u2019ll listen to an example of this with today\u2019s caller Jenny who has gotten a second chance in regards to a romantic relationship.\xa0 She would love to just feel grateful and excited, yet what she is experiencing is a roller coaster of emotions.\xa0 The time is now for her to accept that she is truly worthy of love. She can open her heart, expose her vulnerability and bloom into her feminine aspect or she can go to her protected, solitary place. Being honest and vulnerable in her relationships will allow her to let someone special in without feeling fear.\xa0 Coaching Tip from this call: Focus should be on learning and not on the outcome. Dropping our ego and adopting a learning oriented approach to life serves both client and coach, equally. I invite all of you to join me in September for an my retreat in magical Bali will include meditation, yoga, one-on-one coaching and the finest conversations with like-minded women. I will also be available for personal sessions. E-mail Jill@ChristineHassler.com for information on how to join the festivities on September 16-22. \xa0 Consider/Ask Yourself: \u25cf Have you recently gotten a second chance at something and if so, how are you approaching it? \u25cf Is there someone or something you would like a second chance with? \u25cf Do you truly know you are deserving of love and/or success? \u25cf Do you get anxious about a relationship, and experience a roller coaster of emotions? \u25cf Ladies, do you live in your in your masculine energy a lot? Gentlemen, do you have trouble connecting to a woman who experiences a roller coaster of emotions? \xa0 Jenny\u2019s Question: Jenny wants to know why she reacted like she did when a nice guy wanted to be her boyfriend and what tools she can use to stay in the present and to drop the anxiety. \xa0 Jenny\u2019s Key Insights and Aha\u2019s: \u25cf She doesn\u2019t feel worthy of love \u25cf She is being vulnerable and it feels uncomfortable \u25cf She may feel like a fraud when accepting love \u25cf She can feel safe receiving love \xa0 How to get over it and on with it: \u25cf Focus on the shared visions and values \u25cf Recognize self-worth \u25cf Talk to anxiety in a feminine, loving way \u25cf Shift awareness and let love in \xa0 Tools and Takeaways: \u25cf Stay in the present and be grateful for all you have \u25cf Think of the ways you can be more vulnerable \u25cf Practice saying \u201cThank You\u201d \u25cf Check out Men Exposed, Alison Armstrong and David Deita \xa0 Sponsor: Onnit Wellness - Receive a 10% discount on your purchase when you order through this link (Including my favorites, Alpha Brain and MCT Oil) \xa0 Resources: Christine Hassler Men Exposed Allison Armstrong The Queen\u2019s Code David Dieta @christinhassler on twitter @christinehassler on Instagram Christine@christinehassler.com Jill@christinehassler.com