If you have ever dealt with the pain of rejection, this episode will help!\xa0 Perhaps you\u2019ve heard, \u201cRejection is God\u2019s Protection\u201d but the process of rejection feels pretty awful until we learn what it is really about. Our caller today, Alex, has courageously opened up to another person and shared her truth with them. But the other person did not reciprocate her feelings. She asks me how she can get over her heartbreak and rejection and get on with her life.\xa0
If you have ever felt the pain of rejection or find yourself in an avoidance trap, listen to the tips I give Alex at the end of our call. You can also find resources in my book, Expectation Hangover, to help heal yourself.\xa0
We also talk about speaking our truth - which takes takes courage. We ponder on how our message will be received; but if we believe in our truth, there is value in getting it out into the world.\xa0\xa0
When our truth needs to be told to another person and they don\u2019t realize the outcome we are hoping for we often take it personally. We perceive their response as if something is wrong with us or we did something wrong.
Our fear of the possible rejection is an avoidance trap. An avoidance trap is spending our time and energy avoiding what we don\u2019t want rather than working towards what we do want.
By understanding that we consistently attract experiences to help us heal our core wounds, we realize rejection doesn\u2019t really exist. It is merely a projection of unowned, unseen qualities inside us.
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Consider/Ask Yourself:
What are you construing perceived rejection to mean about you?
What was so attractive about the person or situation you feel didn\u2019t choose you?
Is there someone you have feelings for but are too scared to tell them?
Has something upset you but you don\u2019t have the guts to speak your truth?
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Alex\u2019s Question:
Alex wants to know how to best handle the heartbreak and rejection she is feeling after telling someone she loves them and finding out the feelings are not mutual.\xa0\xa0
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Alex\u2019s Key Insights and Aha\u2019s:
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How to get over it and on with it:
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Tools and Takeaways:
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Resources:
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