How do you say \u201cno?\u201d In a live appearance at UCLA\u2019s Royce Hall, author, life coach and host of OWN\u2019s trailblazing show \u201cIyanla: Fix My Life,\u201d Iyanla Vanzant shares how you can build your "no" muscles. Iyanla says decisions matter and so do you! She mixes spiritual teachings with her unique brand of humor, including a hilarious anecdote about showing up to The Home Depot looking \u201ctack-a-licious,\u201d which led to a realization about self-valuation and how she presents herself to the world.