Interview with Nick Gray
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Why would you want to join or host a 2-hour cocktail party?
\\nBecause as adults, it\\u2019s harder to make friends. And the key to getting even just a few more friends is to build your acquaintances. Friendships come out of acquaintances.
\\nNetworking events are traditionally transactional (and not conducive to building relationships). Invite those you meet to a 2-hour (time restricted and structured) cocktail party. Hosting is a gift!
\\nShare some bios of the people who\\u2019ll be attending to build interest.
\\nAdd structure.
\\nN - Name tags put everyone on the same level and interrupt cliques.
\\nI - Ice-breaker: what\\u2019s your name, what kind of work you do, and what\\u2019s your go-to breakfast.
\\nC - Cocktails only - light snacks are okay. The intent is to keep it all light; no it\\u2019s not a dinner party.
\\nK - Kick \\u2018em out. There\\u2019s an end time. Wind it up after two hours.
\\nDo a quick intro ice-breaker for the early arrivals. Do an ice-breaker when the party has started. Allow for mix and mingle.
\\nDo another structured engaging ice-breaker part way into the evening to shake things up a bit. Having structure allows for those less confident to feel safe in engaging with others. It provides for the intention of mixing and gives the excuse to meet each other.
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Links:
\\n\\nThe 2-Hour Cocktail Party: Book info
\\nThe 2-Hour Cocktail Party: Amazon
\\n\\nHappy Hour Best Practices: How to Plan, Host, and Throw a Great Party
\\nThe Easy Way to Host or Plan a Networking Event