374: YOUVE LOST THOSE LOVING FEELINGS

Published: May 2, 2017, 7:01 a.m.

b'"Never stop showing someone how much they mean to you." Over time you have lost\\xa0the anticipation and excitement of your\\xa0relationship. Your marriage has become something you have to tolerate, something you have to survive or make it through. For some it\'s like the\\xa0song from the Righteous Brother\\u2019s \\u201cYou\\u2019ve Lost That Loving Feeling\\u201d. You may\\xa0have lost that loving feeling and you\'re wondering on\\xa0what to do next. Do you remember when the two of you were courting one another? There was anticipation and excitement when you would spend time together. During your courtship both of you invested in the relationship by getting to know one another, spending time together and being\\xa0intentional about your time together. You prepared and thought about the other\\u2019s needs. You planned for dates, conversations, and everything else. It wasn\\u2019t just \\u201canything goes\\u201d rather it was a season of \\u201clet me put my best foot forward. After the honeymoon and many years together your lives fall into routines. You have a comfort level with one another and if you\\xa0are really truthful with yourselves you\'ve become\\xa0lazy in your marriage. Time together has not been\\xa0important, you don\\u2019t do the little things anymore, you\'ve\\xa0stopped having conversations that meant so much when you were courting one another. You\'re beginning to hear these phrases more and more: This is too much work. You\\u2019re too needy. Why won\\u2019t you spend time with me? It\'s time to get those loving feelings back by courting your spouse like you did when you first meet. In this week\\u2019s show Tony and Alisa talk about how you can have those loving feelings of affection and connection with your spouse once again. EPISODE SPONSOR |\\xa0StoryWorth StoryWorth is an amazing way to preserve memories and\\xa0to learn about your spouse, mom, dad or any relative or friend with their responses.\\xa0Each week\\xa0StoryWorth will send your loved one an email with a question to be answered (you can either choose from the questions provided or come up with your own). At the end of the year, the stories will be printed into a hardcover book.\\xa0Don\\u2019t miss out on this opportunity to capture life\\u2019s most treasured moments. Grab your subscription to StoryWorth today! Other Resources: 3 Marriage Tips From A Pageant Coach Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices'