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b'"Success isn\\u2019t a result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire." \\u2014Arnold Glasgow For the most part your day-to-day activities\\xa0are ruled by your calendars, by schedules, and by alerts popping up on your phone. It doesn\\u2019t matter how you stay organized, the fact is that you\\xa0have ways to keep your time organized and keep you\\xa0moving to the next thing. And then... It comes to your sex life. You desire spontaneity and yet\\xa0your life is ruled by schedules. Or you are waiting for the perfect moment, the perfect energy level, the perfect number of chores, obligations and to-dos to be done. Waiting for all of these things to line up\\xa0will cause you to miss out on opportunities to connect with your spouse. Instead begin to\\xa0look for those opportunities to be spontaneous within the structure of your marriage. You desire a\\xa0quick encounter and be a spontaneous lover but then you are not on the same wavelength with your spouse. There is a yearning to have sex outside of your bedroom and yet\\xa0you\\xa0don\\u2019t always know how to make that happen so it doesn\'t. Many of us\\xa0often fight against structure or planning because we\\xa0feel like it\\u2019s going to take away from our\\xa0freedom. In actuality the opposite is true. Why? Because if you know the framework, the starting line, then anything is possible. For example, many of you have heard us talk about The Intimacy Lifestyle. We have structure only in the way that the days of the week have been split up. That\\u2019s our starting line. The creativity comes in when we choose our own ways to initiate. So let the fun begin as you become a spontaneous lover. In this week\\u2019s show Tony and Alisa talk about\\xa0how you can have fun and excitement in your bedroom by being a spontaneous lover. EPISODE SPONSOR | Called to Love: Experiencing Your Best Marriage Through the Words of Jesus Marriage doesn\'t have to be so complicated. There is a manual on how to do this thing called "happily ever after."\\xa0 In Called to Love you will be equipped to look at your spouse the way that Jesus does, take time to pray for your marriage instead of throwing up your hands and saying, "Heaven help me" and transform your relationship into what God intended for your marriage when the two of you became one.\\xa0Grab your copy of Called to Love and the audio book bonus today. Other Resources: 21 Ways to Initiate Sex With Your Spouse 001: 60 Days of Sex Jinshi Bamboo Boxer Briefs Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices'