360: TOUCH ME

Published: Jan. 24, 2017, 8:01 a.m.

b'"So many people hear the words physical intimacy and think about sex. There are so many layers to being physically intimate with your spouse, choosing just one aspect shortchanges both of you." \\u2014Anonymous Touch is so important and yet\\xa0touch in any form may be\\xa0absent or inconsequential in your marriage at this time. This absence of touch or in the quality of the touch, leads to a feeling of being unwanted, unseen, undesired. It\\u2019s interesting that touch is often one of the first ways that you begin to express your interest in your spouse when you first met. Then\\xa0you \\xa0start your lives together and before you know it touch is one of the first things to go. The most obvious absence of physical intimacy is a lack of sex. But it\\u2019s more than that. Right now you may be struggling with little to no physical intimacy of\\xa0any form (hugs, kisses, cuddling, holding hands, etc). Without touch, without physical intimacy your marriage can feel like a relationship of roommates. It can feel like you are just sharing the same house and the same responsibilities but really have nothing that would differentiate yourselves as a married couple. The two of you need touch. Your bodies were designed for it. You were designed to fit together. You have to create opportunities to connect and you have to be intentional about doing so. In this week\\u2019s show Tony and Alisa talk\\xa0about why physical touch is an important area of connection for you and your spouse. EPISODE SPONSOR |\\xa07 Days of Sex Challenge Bundle Sometimes it can be hard to think of what to get your love... chocolates, lingerie, a night out. Each of these are great choices and yet\\xa0what about something truly unique this year?\\xa0What about something that extends Valentine\\u2019s Day beyond one day?\\xa0Get the 7 Days of Sex Challenge Bundle NOW! Other Resources: Download The Intimacy Wheel Now Strategic Coaching Session with Alisa Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices'