335: SHES NOT YOUR MOTHER
b"Your wife does not want to be your mother! She is and desires\\xa0to be your wife and your lover. Unfortunately, more often than not she is treat as your mother. She's the person in the house\\xa0who picks up after you, makes sure your laundry is done for when you need it, and treated the same\\xa0way you treated your mother when you were growing up. Here's the thing... She does not want to be your mothers. She doesn't want to consider you as another child in the house and yet\\xa0when your behavior mirrors that of a child she is going to react and treat you as one. This is NOT good! Over the years we have had husbands share with us that they\\xa0want their\\xa0wife to be romantic, to be sexual, and to be interested in them. But they are not because there's a disconnect. You've been\\xa0treating her as your mother and not as your lover and wife. If you want a wife and lover in your home it's time to show her. Do this by the words you use and the actions to show her that she is your wife and lover. You have to go\\xa0beyond a quick grab of her breasts now and then? Yes, we did say a quick grab because that\\u2019s how kids treat their mothers. \\xa0Kids for the most part have no respect or awareness of their mother's\\xa0body only their own needs. The longer your marriage stays in this vicious circle of emasculated man and wife as your mother, the harder it is\\xa0for the two of you to relate as husband and wife and more importantly as lovers. In this week's\\xa0show Tony and Alisa\\xa0talk about\\xa0why it\\u2019s important for husbands to treat their wife as their lover and not their mother. EPISODE SPONSOR |\\xa04 Simple Strategies to Rebuild Trust Trust can seem like such a tough mountain to climb when you are in the process of rebuilding. It can feel like you just don\\u2019t know what to do first, who to talk to or where to turn. Don\\u2019t stay in that place of feeling overwhelmed. Don\\u2019t get paralyzed and do nothing. Get started on rebuilding the trust in your marriage.\\xa0Grab your free report. Strategic Coaching with Alisa Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices"