318: YOUR MARRIAGE NEEDS YOU TO GROW UP

Published: April 5, 2016, 7:01 a.m.

b'Unless you are a teenager it\\u2019s time to grow up\\xa0in your marriage. When you partake in behaviors that are typical of a teenager you are chipping away at the foundation of your marriage. A marriage that does not have transparency in all areas is a marriage with secrets. Those secrets will destroy the best of marriages. Not allowing YOUR spouse to see the real you can allow for questioning the true nature of your relationship. You may ask... "Does my\\xa0spouse love me or do they just love the me I pretend to be?" Risky behaviors, will\\xa0catch up with you. Nothing that you do\\xa0exists in a vacuum. You will get caught, discovered or found out.\\xa0If you want a different marriage then\\xa0your marriage needs you to stop engaging in risky behavior that sabotage it. ME is not WE. When the two of you became one, part of that agreement was the declaration of putting your own selfish desires behind the desires of your spouse. When the focus is on what you want and your own needs being satisfied, your marriage will wither and die because of the lack of attention to your spouse. Are you ready to grow up so your marriage can experience all that you and your spouse desire? In this week\'s show Tony and Alisa talk about why your marriage needs you to grow up and stop acting like a teenager so that you don\'t miss out on all that your marriage can be. EPISODE SPONSOR |\\xa0Minter & Richter Titanium Rings Minter & Richter work\\xa0from their\\xa0studio housed in Boston\\u2019s Historic Rum Distillery,\\xa0Scott, Owner, Ring Maker & Metalsmith Extraordinaire,\\xa0meticulously crafts each ring custom to order. Combining titanium with everything from the exotic \\u2013 water buffalo horn, to the everyday \\u2013 concrete, and special found objects that customers send, Scott is continually reinventing the idea of what a ring should be.\\xa0Get your customer ring today! LIVE TRAINING - More Love, Less Conflict: How To Use Open and Honest Communication For A Stronger Marriage Rescue My Marriage Today Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices'