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b"Jealousy is destructive to both the one who is being jealous and the one who is receiving it. After 19 years of marriage we've experienced jealousy at different times and over different things. Jealousy\\xa0 can take the form of: interrogations about where someone has been, what they have been doing or who they were with searching through your spouse's phone or through a computer questioning any time that your spouse\\xa0happens to look at a member of the opposite sex rifling through their bags/suitcases/briefcases for \\u201cevidence\\u201d increasing anxiety over what your spouse does when you are not around them Where does jealousy come from? There is no easy answer but there are a number of ways that it can begin in one\\u2019s life. These include: Low Self Esteem - being told that you are not good enough, pretty enough, handsome enough, smart enough Feelings of insecurity or fear of abandonment - being hurt in the past can set you up to try and protect yourself in the future Fear of vulnerability or fear of rejection - the fear that if you reveal your true self you will be loved less, that by sharing who you truly are your spouse will not love you Jealousy is destructive in marriage. In this week's show Tony and Alisa\\xa0talk about the impact jealousy has on your marriage and what you can do about it. EPISODE SPONSOR |\\xa0I Love You But I Don't Trust You Webinar Join us for the \\u201cI Love You But I Don\\u2019t Trust You: 4 Simple Strategies To Build, Maintain, and Regain Trust In Your Relationship\\u201d webinar on Wednesday December 2nd. During this free webinar you will learn: A practical step-by-step process for rebuilding trust after porn, infidelity, suspicion and harmful mistakes (even if your partner is not on board). Register today for our I Love You But I Don\\u2019t Trust You Webinar. Connect Like You Did When You First Met: 101 Proven Questions for Couples 4 Simple Tools to Improve Communication with Your Spouse\\xa0via Wellness Mom Life Connecting Like We Did When We First Met\\xa0via A Prioritized Marriage Communication in Our Marriage\\xa0via Country Living and Penny Pinching Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices"