219: I LOVE YOU, BUT IM NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU

Published: May 12, 2014, 7:01 a.m.

b'These nine words, "I Love You, But I\'m Not In Love With You", when said in your marriage are a sucker punch to the stomach. They\\xa0convey that you or your spouse are no longer willing to put forth any effort into the relationship. "In love" is really about the idea of being in love with the ideal spouse. Loving your spouse is love on a whole other level, it\\u2019s knowing what they look like when they don\\u2019t have any makeup on or when they have had a rough day at work. It\\u2019s honoring the vows that you took when things were good and also when times are challenging. This week Tony & Alisa share what\\xa0you can do so "I Love You, But I\'m Not In Love With You" will not be uttered in your marriage. If they have been don\'t worry because they have been there too. Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices'