Green Flags
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We always hear about the red flags and how to spot them. But what about the green flags? What about the good things? In today\\u2019s episode of divine transformation, we\\u2019re talking about the good. I have a lot of good things to share that are happening in my life and I attribute them to embracing the good in spite of the bad. If you open your eyes, God gives you a preview of what\\u2019s to come. Although this has been a year of challenges, surprises, and major life events, it has turned into the best year of my life. So listen on to find out what makes green flags unique and why they shouldn\\u2019t be ignored.
Show Notes:
[1:11] - Jameelah announces that she is engaged and this is the best year of her life.
[2:10] - Is something happening to you or for you?
[4:10] - Lauren Wesley Designs, Jameelah\\u2019s design company, has been cast on a new HGTV show.
[6:03] - Jameelah feels equipped to embrace all the love and support from people who care about her. She feels that everything has been timely.
[7:13] - We talk about avoiding red flags, we don\\u2019t really talk about how we also ignore green flags.
[8:24] - Understanding the green flags will help you have a balance of positive and negative. What are the good things?
[9:50] - Even if someone doesn\\u2019t check off all the boxes, how many green flags do you see in a relationship?
[10:48] - Listening is a lost art for many people. Truly listen.
[12:31] - Jameelah compares green and red flags in relationships to those in interior design.
[14:24] - Are you immediately jumping into something and picking the other person apart?
[16:10] - Give things some time. Listen and get to know somebody.
[17:50] - Look closely, ask questions, and be transparent about your situation.
[19:11] - The first green flag Jameelah had about her fiance is that he welcomed her into his life fully.
[20:20] - Jameelah never feels like she has to prove herself.
[22:05] - Another green flag was the environment of acceptance and trust.
[23:28] - Once you realize you don\\u2019t need fillers and that you are amazing just the way you are, you will go farther in life.
[24:51] - Are you able to embrace the good?
[26:14] - Support and understanding in a partner is a game changer for Jameelah after leaving her previous marriage.
[27:51] - Jameelah knew she could try to salvage her marriage but just because she could doesn\\u2019t mean she should. She decided to leave and follow her intuition.
[30:50] - If you open your eyes, God will give you a little preview of what is coming.