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What would you do if you heard to child say I HATE my parents?

Last Week Discussion- Repositioning Your Children For Success

Three Points 1. Guard your Mouth 2. Guard your Ears 3. Guard your Eyes

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My question would be, why would they say something like that? I am sure you would ask the same question because no parent would ever expect the children to say something that cruel, and if they did you would be speechless as I would be myself.

We ask our children to be perfect, when in their eyes we are far from perfect. Instead of providing a vehicle for them to conqueror their failures all we do is criticize and tear them down while learning to navigate through life.

4 Things happen when don\u2019t allow our children to make mistakes

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1. 1. They lose confidence in themselves and us as parents
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2. 2. They Lose Trust
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3. 3. They Lose Hope
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4. 4.  They believe there is no reason to try and please you because it is impossible
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What is the answer to cultivating a healthy loving and trusting relationship with your child?

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1. 1.  Teach them through their challenges
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2. 2. Stop talking and blaming and start listing
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3. 3. Hug them and tell them you love them often
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4. 4.  Show them you love them (that doesn\u2019t mean given to every request
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5. 5. Extend grace to them as you would expect for yourself
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