More than ever this year we need to keep calm (emotionally and in our spending!). Don't overspend, it will just cause stress later. Remember it's not how much you spend but how much love you give. Be kind to yourself and to others. Take a moment to do my ABC. Find a funny moment in each day. I know more than anyone what it's like to lose a loved one so please try to focus on the memories. Virtual hugs to all